For some, Valentines Day is a welcome opportunity to take a second out of your busy schedule to cherish the relationships in your life.  For others, this day serves as an unfriendly reminder that your love life is less than optimal.  Either way, it is a good time to check in and reflect on how you and your significant other could improve your relationship or, for those single individuals, to redefine what they are looking for in another person.  This link outlines the pillars of a mature and lasting relationship and what it takes from each individual.